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Preparing For A VBAC in Cincinnati

9/28/2015

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Given a ''times up'' cesarean the first time around and now 10cm, this Mom adorned a huge smile for the rest of her VBAC!

Preparing For A VBAC in Cincinnati

So, you've recently found out you are expecting and you've had a previous cesarean?? 

Congratulations! 
You've come to the right place!


If you've chosen to prepare for a vaginal birth after a cesarean, here you will find 5 tips and resources on increasing your chances of a successful VBAC in Cincinnati, remembering that whatever birth YOU choose will be the right one for you and your family.

1. Choose a Supportive Care Provider

A supportive care provider is the most important step in attaining a successful VBAC. You want to find someone who understands that a vaginal birth is best for you and baby and one that not only supports you, but believes in you. 

Ask questions.

Find out what their cesarean rate is and what their rate of successful VBACs is. Listen to their tone. Do they sound like they truly believe in you? Are they willing to answer all of your questions? Listen to your gut and don't be afraid to switch care providers until you find the right one for you.

Here you will find my list of Naturally Supportive Care Providers in Cincinnati as well as Questions to Ask Your Care Provider. This will be a great starting point! 

2. Seek Out Local Support Groups

We are so fortunate here in Cincinnati to have a monthly meeting of women and families who are passionate about supporting other families through avoiding medically unnecessary cesareans, healing from cesareans, or even preparing for cesareans. 

Find more information, please visit: 
International Cesarean Awareness Network (ICAN) - Cincinnati Branch 

and/or the  

ICAN of Greater Cincinnati Facebook Page 

Looking for more personal support? I have several past clients who would LOVE to talk with you and share their experience 

3. Read, Research, and Empower Yourself 

I've found that being up to snuff on current research and recommendations will help you to confidently move forward in your decision and hopefully dispel any negativity you might encounter from friends and family.

Information Packed Websites: 

VBAC FACTS 

Improving Birth 

Childbirth Connection 

Science and Sensibility 

VBAC Stories: 

15 Inspiring VBAC Stories 

Birth Without Fear

VBAC Specific Books: 

Birthing Normally After a Cesarean or Two

Silent Knife: Cesarean Prevention and Vaginal Birth After Cesarean 

Cut, Stapled, Mended

Facebook Support Group: 

VBAC Support Group- Vaginal Birth After C-Section

Videos: 

The Truth about Cesareans 


More Business of Being Born

4. Hire a Doula 

You knew it was coming, right? As a doula, of course I'm going to say that, but really the evidence is Here, There and ooh, look... Even More Here. 
Numerous studies have found that women who are continuously supported in labor have shorter labors, fewer complications , and fewer cesareans.
Women are less likely to need pitocin (a labor-inducing drug), drugs for pain relief including an epidural, and forceps or vacuum extraction. They are also more likely to be satisfied with their birth experience. 

As a doula, I have worked with many women desiring a VBAC, most of which have had successful VBACs and all of which have felt informed and supported throughout their pregnancy and birth.

I must say, there is nothing more amazing than witnessing the look on a woman (and her partner's) face when she is holding her fresh newborn baby... that she pushed out of her vagina! .... Wahoo!! 

5. Be Gentle with Yourself 

You are pregnant...and you're a mother. You have a lot going on.. 
Preparing for childbirth is always an intense experience, but especially so when faced with such big decisions. 
You can do it! You are strong. You are smart. 
No matter the decisions you make along the way, they are going to be the right decisions for you.  
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Bonus Tips for Preparing Your Mind and Body for a VBAC:
A few things that many women have found to help their comfort, state of mind and strength for pregnancy and labor include:

Prenatal Yoga
Chiropractor Care
Visiting the Physical Therapist 
Prenatal Massage 

Eating Dates
Drinking Red Raspberry Leaf Tea 

Have tips to add or share? I'd love to hear from you! Feel free to comment below!

Let's have tea!

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Molly Murray is a Cincinnati Birth Doula, Childbirth and Parenting Mentor, Placenta Specialist and the owner and founder of the Cincinnati Birth & Parenting Network

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20 Questions to Ask Yourself When Writing Your Birth Story

9/16/2015

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I don't know about you, but I've read about 1 million birth stories in my years as a Mother and Doula. 
But when it comes to writing my own birth story, I struggle to find the words...or the time.  

You can see here, it took me 3 years to finally write my second child's birth story, 
The Birth That Inspired Me to Become a Doula 

Is it the hormones of labor and delivery blocking my memory? 
Was it such an intense experience that my brain doesn't allow me to relive it? 
Perhaps that is nature's way of allowing for continued procreation, right? 
Or really, is it just that I wait too long? 

I encourage couples at our Postpartum Visit to write their birth story ASAP. 

Some families choose to write their birth stories and keep them close, only for themselves to reflect upon. Others choose to share with close family and friends and others choose to share with the world. 

Your story is important and it’s yours to do with what you wish... but first, you have to write it!
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What are some reasons to write a birth story?? 

• To help you remember all the small details that can be so quickly forgotten

• To process an especially difficult birth

• As a keepsake for your children, the story of their one and only true Birth Day. 

Have more reasons? Comment below! 

20 Questions to Ask Yourself When Writing Your Birth Story:

1. Where were you at and what were you doing when you first thought labor may be starting?

2. What was the first sign that labor might be or was imminent? 

3. Who did you tell first? How did they react?

4. How and when did you know for sure that it was labor? 

5. Did you have time to rest? What are some of the activities/positions you tried for comfort?

6. When did you call your doula, childcare for older siblings, someone to care for the dog, etc.? 

7. How long did you labor at home? 

8. How did you know it was time to go to the hospital or call the midwife, if having a homebirth? 

9. What was the ride to the hospital like?

10. What are some physical sensations you especially remember..smells, touch, noises? 

11. How would you describe your contractions or surges in the various stages in labor?

12. What were your moods like at various times in labor?
For fun, how would those around you in labor answer this? 

13. What was it like to settle into your birth place? 

14. What surprised you about your labor? 

15. What would you describe as the high and low points of your labor?

16. How did your labor and birth compare to what you thought it might be like?

17. How long did you push? Were there complications with your delivery? If so, what were your feelings and reactions to the intensity? 

18. How did your baby first look to you? What were the feelings when you first met your baby? 
Think about the smells, sounds, sensations... 

19. What are some other things that are memorable to you or that you now laugh or cry about?

20. Did you surprise yourself in any way as you dealt with the circumstances of your birth experience?
Remember:
  • These are just ideas & this is YOUR birth story. 
  • There is no right or wrong length or amount of detail.
  • Write what matters to you.

Have more ideas or want to share a link to your birth story? Feel free to do so in the comments! 
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    Molly Murray

    Cincinnati Mother, Birth and Postpartum Doula, Childbirth Educator and Founder of the Cincinnati Birth and Parenting Network. 

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